Sunday, April 12, 2009

Should i be mad at him for not getting me an anniversary gift?

its our 1 year anniversary and we%26#039;ve both been counting down the days... i dont want to sound selfish, but he didn%26#039;t get me anything at ALL. not even flowers. i wasnt even expecting much but i was hoping to at least get one flower or something. but he did apologize and genuinely felt bad... so i guess its the thought that counts. im not all that mad.... should i be? i made him a mix cd and bought some cute lingerie for him.. but thats all

Should i be mad at him for not getting me an anniversary gift?
All u need to do is to make him understand the importance of this relation and the sweet memories u had spend with each other and if he understands that then you dont have to be mad i think your job will be done ..........Anger is not the solution for love lol
Reply:My wife and I usually do something together each anniversary. Often, we get each other something small, or some years something for the house together. The gift isn%26#039;t a big deal for us, it%26#039;s the day together that matters. We started keeping a book that we write in each anniversary with things that happened over the last 12 months. I suggest you do that tonight. It%26#039;s fun to look back on over the years.
Reply:well this is a rough situation. Did he have money to get you something special?? Well if not then you should understand that. If so then that is a sign of being CHEAP and you need to know this is what to expect sometimes. Now on my one year annv. about 3 yrs ago my man didn%26#039;t do anything until the weekend. He said that he wanted it to be special and it would have been a rushed event because he got off late and has always leave for work at 5am, not to mention he would have been to tired to enjoy himself. So give it a few days maybe he has something special planed.
Reply:it is perfectly normal for you to show concern and to get mad to show that you care for the relationship. However, you shouldn%26#039;t hold it against him or it will turn into a bad point for your relationship. This is what people tell me.





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Reply:I would be LIVID and he certainly would know it for the rest of the month. I hope u didn%26#039;t give him any Anniversary Nookie! I guess his thoughts weren%26#039;t on his Anniversary. Make him PAY girl! Punish him for that. Anniversary%26#039;s only come once a year.
Reply:no, its only the first year, if he doesnt next year then you can be mad.


and make him make it up to you in the bedroom.



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